“It’s not what you don’t know that gets you in trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just isn’t so.” A blog about open relationships, women’s empowerment and self-improvement. Female (she/her). 33 years old. Ex-big law attorney. Divorcee. Happily partnered. Step-mom. Ex-Evangelical Christian. Recovering from religion. Ethically non-monogamous. Foodie. Functioning alcoholic, sometimes. Drug friendly, most of the time. Homeschool survivor. Entrepreneur. Sex positive. Helpful ResourcesOpen All the Way: Confessions from my Open MarriageDesigner Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory and Optimistic Open RelationshipsOpen: Love, Sex and Life in an Open MarriageThe Ethical Slut